Getting Through The Slumps

I’m in sales. That’s what I do.  Cold calls, demonstrations, more cold calls, asking questions and asking more questions. It may not seem fun to some, but for me, I enjoy it. It is invigorating to get to know new people every day, to learn about their business and finding solutions to their problems.

The problem with what I do is that some months are better than others. There are times, it seems, that whatever I do, I can’t make a sale. 

We’ve all been there before.

Here are some suggestions that might help you through these slumps.

1)      Relax – Don’t let the stress of making a sale get to you. People can hear it in your voice. It makes them nervous and having two nervous people trying to come to a consensus is not good. Take some deep breaths, walk away from your desk for a while or go to your “happy place.” Do what you need to do to relax it will calm your mind and help you refocus your efforts.

2)      Look back – take a moment to look at what you are currently doing and then look back at what you did differently when you were successful. Find out what is different. Try to find the differences. Maybe you used a different tone when you spoke with people. Maybe you are not listening to the client. Maybe you are staying up until 12:00 am every night and you are tired.

3)      Ask for help - There is no weakness in asking for help, it is actually a strength. When you ask for help, it lets others know you are trying to get back on top. It shows that you know something isn’t working and you are trying to fix it. Good managers and co-workers will always be willing to work through the difficult times with you if they know you’re doing your part.

4)      Strategize – This is different than looking back. This is the numbers. Work out your closing ratios. How many demonstrations do I need to get a sale? How many live people do I need to talk with to schedule a demonstration? How many phone calls do I need to make to talk to a live person?

5)      Work your butt off – nothing, and I mean nothing, goes farther than working harder and smarter.

Rough times will come and go. It is what you do during the rough times that will make you a super-star.

How do you get through your rough times?

What's The Difference Of A Winner And A Loser?

You see it all the time, some people succeeding in everything they do and others wallowing at the bottom of their field. There are those who rise to the top. They are the “cream of the crop”, the “top dog”, the “king of the hill.” And then there are those who can’t seem to get off the bottom. They are the “bad apples”, the “under achievers”, the “Beetle Bailey’s.”

What is the difference?

Why is it sometime we see those individuals that no matter what life places in front of them, they come out on top?

Here’s what I think.

Losers look at a situation and fill their heads with thoughts of why it can’t be done.

Winners look at a situation and fill their heads with thoughts of how to get it done.

Losers see a problem and feel the pain of hard work, even before a shovel has been lifted.

Winners see a problem and feel the invigoration of completing a job, even before the first nail has been struck.

Losers look at others and are fine being on the bottom

Winners look at others and are sick if they are not at the top.

It's been said, “if you think you can or you think you can’t, your right”

If you want to be a winner, it just may be as easy as changing your outlook.

I would love to hear your thoughts.

The Problem With Lying

The things I am going to write about today may be a little controversial. They’re not meant to be. They shouldn't be. I am going to delve into the arena of politics.

My words are directed at all politicians, all those who want to be politicians, all appointed cabinet or department heads, all spokes-persons, all political parties and all media.

STOP LYING TO US!

Unfortunately, there is not much we can do about the media. They are privately held companies that have their own agendas, viewpoints and slants.

But our politicians and their cohorts are another story.

How is our representative republic (we are not a democracy) supposed to work correctly with an uninformed or misinformed public? How is the voting public supposed to vote for the best individual when they can’t tell the difference between them? How is the voting public supposed to know who's corrupt and needs to be removed from office?

Let me be perfectly clear, this is not confined to one person, one politician, one party or one media outlet. It is rampant. It is engrained in the system. It is prevalent.

The lies and mistruths are disgusting, immoral and wrong. Yes, I said it wrong!

We, as the public, need to search for truth. Not what we want to hear, not what will make our lives easier, not what feels right at the time. We need to know the truth.

Unfortunately this is going to take work. It is going to take time. It is going to take commitment. It is going to take courage. It is going to take unending digging.

Then when we hear lies from politicians, their spokes-persons, their appointees or their marketing departments, we need to hold them accountable and we need to vote them out of office.

Just like a few firings at work for poor performance sends a message loud and clear to the other employees, if we vote some of these lying politicians, and their minions, out of office, the others will get the message and straighten up!

EFX: Drop the microphone…

I’m done!

Fair

I hear it from my kids all the time “That’s not fair!”  “Why did he get that and I didn’t? That’s not fair!” “My friends get to stay out later, why don’t I? That’s not fair!” It’s a broken record. It’s worse than nails on a chalk board, a poison ivy rash or listening to Rosie Perez for more than 8 seconds!

It’s now a familiar refrain we hear in the media all the time. Fairness this and fairness that.

News Flash! LIFE’S NOT FAIR!

Never has been, never will be. No one promised life would be fair. If they did, they lied to you.

Here’s what’s fair… You can make your life better with ingenuity, persistence and hard work.

It’s true, some of us have been blessed with better circumstances than others. But regardless of where we start, we can always end off better.

Some of our greatest hero’s started off in poor situations. Joan of Arc, Nelson Mandela, Jesse Owens, Winston Churchill, Rosa Parks, Helen Keller, should I go on?

It has been said “Attitude will determine altitude.” We can make anything of ourselves. Others have done it, we can too.

“It’s not fair” isn’t a statement of opportunity, it’s a cop-out!

The Two Most Powerful Words In The World

“Thank you.”

That’s it. Nothing spectacular. Nothing abstract. They aren’t even elegant.

But they are very powerful. They can move an individual to work harder or do a better job. They can change attitudes and outlooks. These two words, as simple as they are, can start to mend relationships that have been damaged for years.

Think of the last time someone said “Thank you” to you for something.  Anything. It could have been for something you did that wasn’t even difficult. How did it make you feel? Did it put a smile on your face? Did it motivate you to do it again or better? Did you have a little more pep in your step?

Now think of a time when you did something and no one thanked you.

Wow! Even thinking about it felt bad.

This is why “Thank you” are the two most powerful words in the world. They motivate, they uplift, and they can change a person in an instant.

When was the last time you said “Thank you” to those people in the shadows? A janitor, a garbage man, a store clerk, the housekeeper or bellman. And the people in your life that matter most, your children and spouse?

“Thank you” could be the two words that change a person’s life and sky rockets them to greatness.

Thank you.

The Little Things

A couple of weekends ago my wife and I went camping. It was just one night but we wanted to get out of town away from all the distractions of life.

After some hunting around, and a few small adventures, we found a place to put up the tent.

I began to be focused on putting up the tent, getting a fire started, getting our sleeping bags out, you know, all the stuff that I felt needed to be done.

My wife was focused on other things.

While I was busy getting other things done, she was focused on the flowers. “David come look at this!” Her excitement over things, I felt were inconsequential, was never ending. A squirrel would dart across the road and she would exclaim, “Quick get the camera!” My response was, “It’s only a squirrel.” A deer came close to our camp and she almost jumped out of her skin with excitement. I was trying to get the fire started and couldn’t bother.

I look back at our experience and wonder, who had the better time? Who enjoyed themselves better?

It is easy to get caught up in the tasks that “need” to get done. It isn’t so easy to take the time to look at the little things around us. To marvel at the beauty of nature. To focus on the world that extends more than five feet around us.

It is important to continue to be fascinated by life.

I think my wife got more out of our camping than I did, but I did learn a valuable lesson.

What Is That Big Rock Doing In The Middle Of My Path?

Most of us have some sort of a plan on how we see our lives progressing. It may only be in our head, but it is an expected direction we see ourselves going. High school, college, work, family, kids, work, retirement. Each of our paths are different.

But scattered upon our paths, most of us come upon some great big boulders. I’m not talking about ones that will move out of the way if you put back your back into it. I’m talking about those huge mammoth boulders that wouldn’t move with a stick of dynamite.

These boulders could be a lot of things. Health problems, money problems or relationship problems. These boulders can almost be anything. Each of us have our own, very specific and personal boulders and no two boulders are exactly the same.

Boulders appear for a myriad of reasons. Our poor decisions or others’ poor decisions. Sometimes we see the boulders from far away and other times they drop down in front of us from nowhere.

How we deal with these boulders says a lot about who we are.

We can go around them and try to avoid them. We can change our paths. We can stand there forever looking at the boulder and let it stop our journey. But if we don’t do something with the boulder we’re stuck. They will stay there and block our paths, always keeping us from getting to our desired destination.

The best way to deal with these boulders is to attack them. Take a pick ax and start swinging. Break them down to the point where all that is left is dust.

It, more than likely, will take some time. These boulders are enormous! But every time we grab the handle, exert the strength to lift the heavy head of the pick ax and swing, something incredible happens. We grow stronger!

After days and weeks and months of swinging, it gets easier. The pick ax seems to be getting lighter. Our swings are able to chip larger pieces of rock off of the boulder. The boulder gets smaller and smaller to the point where only a small pebble is left.

With this strength gained from dealing with a boulder, other boulders become less daunting and are easier to destroy. It’s a never ending cycle of building strength through crushing our particular, personal boulders.

It may be time to grab the handle of the pick ax.